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Play Together

Get Active: Play Together

Play is important for learning, healthy development and relationships.

Dial Down Stress

Some stress is ok, but too much is harmful. It can impact brain development, learning, mental health and physical health. Stress can also hurt relationships by leading us to say and do things we regret. Managing household stress can help adults and children thrive.

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Tips for Coping with Household Stress

You can help your family by taking care of yourself and managing your stress.

Set realistic goals and be kind to yourself. Don’t try to be perfect.

Move your muscles to manage stress by walking, running, dancing, or any exercise.

Take extra care of relationships in times of stress. Pause before reacting.

Take “tech time-outs” from TV and other electronics for periods of family calm.

Show your children how you manage your own stress in healthy ways.

Find stress reducers you can use anywhere, like breathing exercises or brief meditations.

Treat yourself often to happy thoughts, memories, photos, and laughter.

A healthy, nurturing relationship with you helps children cope with their stress.

Children need to move their bodies often.

They need a total of 60 minutes or more of physical activity throughout each day. Make sure part of this time is spent with you. Aim to spend at least 20 minutes every day in active play together.

Children need you to play with them. Physical activity is good for both of you. Active play time together builds important skills for children and strengthens the bond between you.

Seven Benefits of Playing Together

A natural brain booster: Research shows that physical play stimulates brain development and boosts school test scores.

Stronger family relationships and friendships: Spending a few minutes playing together is an investment in your relationship. You can use playtime to teach cooperation and how to channel competitive energy.

Problem solving skills: Children learn self-control when they practice taking turns and following the rules of the game.(“Oh, I see dad didn’t get mad when his turn was over.”)

Healthy habits: More time spent together playing means less time sitting andwatching TV or playing alone on devices

Emotional intelligence: Children gain empathy and learn fairness in winning and losing when you show them your emotions. Children gain confidence when they learn to recognize the emotions of others as well as manage their own emotions during play. (“Mom won’t like it if I push too hard; then we will have to stop playing tag.”)

Health and fitness: Physical activity strengthens the body and improves hearthealth, coordination and flexibility. You will both sleep better, too!

Joy and laughter: Playing together reduces stress. Happiness is a great gift you give each other through play.

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